Comments on: Where did they go? http://parentingwithanarcissist.com/2007/06/25/where-did-they-go/ Wed, 18 Apr 2012 17:09:54 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: PhoenixRising http://parentingwithanarcissist.com/2007/06/25/where-did-they-go/comment-page-1/#comment-8 PhoenixRising Fri, 11 Jul 2008 16:18:09 +0000 http://parentingwithanarcissist.com/?p=5#comment-8 Hi ChildofNarcissism, Thank you for your thoughtful response and the questions you so courageously ask. I'm sorry it took me so long to even discover I had your comment waiting for approval. That you are asking these questions is a huge testament to who you are as a person. I'm glad our paths have crossed. Hi ChildofNarcissism,

Thank you for your thoughtful response and the questions you so courageously ask. I’m sorry it took me so long to even discover I had your comment waiting for approval.

That you are asking these questions is a huge testament to who you are as a person. I’m glad our paths have crossed.

]]> By: ChildOfNarcissism http://parentingwithanarcissist.com/2007/06/25/where-did-they-go/comment-page-1/#comment-4 ChildOfNarcissism Mon, 24 Mar 2008 18:25:25 +0000 http://parentingwithanarcissist.com/?p=5#comment-4 I just found this blog today. 3/24/2008. What an eye-opener. At the age of 47, I realize now, only now, what has happened to me. This blog has been a Godsend, and I cannot tell you how much it means to me to be reading this material. I was raised by a NPD. He scores 9 out of 9 on the test. My god, what I have gone through! And I thought this was 'normal'. Now I understand so much. And I have so much healing to do, I don't even know where to start. But I now know to start. Worse yet, I'm afraid I've picked up on some of these NPD attributes. Have I become this creature? Have I hurt my family? I have to face up to the fact that 1) I have been damaged by a NPD father, and 2) I may have passed at least some of this type of pain onto my own family. Lord help me. Keep this up. If one NPD picks up on this and see's themself, if only for a moment, as the monster they are then maybe there's hope. You asked, "where my brains went". Where did mine go? Maybe another question to ask is, what horrible thing did we do to ourselves to compensate for these narcissists, and can we heal? I just found this blog today. 3/24/2008. What an eye-opener. At the age of 47, I realize now, only now, what has happened to me. This blog has been a Godsend, and I cannot tell you how much it means to me to be reading this material.

I was raised by a NPD. He scores 9 out of 9 on the test.

My god, what I have gone through! And I thought this was ‘normal’. Now I understand so much. And I have so much healing to do, I don’t even know where to start. But I now know to start.

Worse yet, I’m afraid I’ve picked up on some of these NPD attributes. Have I become this creature? Have I hurt my family? I have to face up to the fact that 1) I have been damaged by a NPD father, and 2) I may have passed at least some of this type of pain onto my own family.

Lord help me.

Keep this up. If one NPD picks up on this and see’s themself, if only for a moment, as the monster they are then maybe there’s hope.

You asked, “where my brains went”. Where did mine go? Maybe another question to ask is, what horrible thing did we do to ourselves to compensate for these narcissists, and can we heal?

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